Staying Stuck in The Three R's

(read the previous two posts first!)
A cancer is an energy source that eats away at the larger energy source with no reference to the whole. It eats away at the larger energy source and destroys the larger energy source and eventually destroys itself. Think about it...Isn't that what a cancer does? It starts off small inside the body, eating, growing, if left untreated it destroys the body and destroys itself. When we are living in the Three R's we become that cancer. I hear people say, "I would never apologize...I won't give them the satisfaction!" By staying stuck, you are killing yourself, killing your relationships and taking that inability to handle conflict into future relationships. I have some big news for you. It is not the other party that gets the benefit of the apology it is you! By learning to clean up your relationships you are giving yourself the necessary life energy you need to survive. I learned in my college physics class that when resistence is present there is a release of ENERGY! When I am going through my life with an unsolved conflict here, an unsolved conflict there...all of that takes energy. It depleats my energy source and at the end of the day I am exhausted. By learning to handle the conflicts of your lives we have more energy to love the people we care about! All of these blogs began with a discussion about conflict and communication. I made the assertion that it is not easy, but it is simple. In the next post, learn the simple strategy for handling the conflicts of our lives!